Well you we're the other
person, the accomplice to a adulteress affair. Do you worry now that the man
you are with will do the same to you? Well, if this was you, you should have
concerns! This could be the history of him or her, and your future
together is like walking on thin ice. I would exam the situation very close,
and encourage you to examine the obsessive reason this person feels the need to
cheat, and why you would be drawn to it.
Being in this type of relationship
will only bring forth great anxiety, that usually will not go away. It is
important to exam why this person cheated in the first place, could be that
they have a sexual addition, emotional problems, mental problems etc.
In case studios, it is proven
that once a person cheats, from experience they will more likely cheat again. Even
though you feel you have a strong bond with this person, the thought of how you
connected will always be in your mind. And for that reason there will never be
trust.
There is the part of your
mind that will always wonder. When you have a disagreement, will he seek
another? Life is never certain enough to say they won't.
It is important to know what
type of person you are dealing with. Ask your self these questions. What was
his past relationship like? Why was it so easy to have a affair rather then
work on his relationship? How does he really feel now that he had time to be
single? All these things will determine the outcome sooner or later of your
relationship.
Also are you going to be able
to handle this person still communicating with his ex. It will always be in
your mind if he is thinking he made a mistake and wants to fix the relationship.
There is a saying once a
cheater always a cheater. And if its happen multi times, then more likely YOU
are NEXT !
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